Good moisturiser or anti-aging product that will work on combination skin. 41 and in the uk.?

I am abit worried that I am doing more harm than good, using different creams on my face. Do you need to use a day and night moisturiser and for my age, do I need anti aging that I have been using for a good while. I have fine lines in my cheeks and the usual crows feet and afew fine lines coming under my eyes. I have also noticed that the corners of my lips are starting to disappear abit, causing the corners of my mouth to droop slightly. I hope I havent done this damage with all these creams. I dont know if I just need a good lifting moisturiser or what. I need to use one good product and stick to it. I have been using Loreal revitalift day and night at the moment. I have also used Boots uplifting day and night but found that my skin was permantly greasy. Somedays I just use Boots hydrating moisturiser lotion which is nice on the skin. I am currently waiting for Arbonne anti aging. I am also permantly dark under my eyes. Nothing seems to work. causes white spots in corners of my eyes

What Anti-aging facial products on the market really work?

I’ve been using Avon, Neutrogenia, Loreal. But I hear a lot of "good" things about Olay and Murad, so which really works?? I’m 41, I have a few wrinkles around my eye’s{not too bad yet!}, I know I have some sun damage because of a couple of Brown spots, I’m starting to go through Pre-menaphaus, so there’s some hormonal changes; probably and un-even tone ect…Can you help?

To the ladies, which anti aging products actually work from your experiences?

I heard many times that some anti aging products don't work as well as the companies claimed them to be.

Which affordable brands (like Loreal, Olay, Garnier, etc) of anti aging products actually work from your experiences?

I have wrinkles under my eyes and on my forehead that I need to get rid of.

To the ladies, which anti aging products actually work from your experiences?

I heard many times that some anti aging products don’t work as well as the companies claimed them to be.

Which affordable brands (like Loreal, Olay, Garnier, etc) of anti aging products actually work from your experiences?
I have wrinkles under my eyes and on my forehead that I need to get rid of.